11 Manipulation Tactics That Narcissists Use to Control Their Partners<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\nHere is the list of 11 most common manipulation tactics that narcissist use so as to have control over their partners. Take a look\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n1. Love Bombing<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nFirst and foremost, tactics that they use is love bombing. Love Bombing<\/strong><\/a> is a phase when a narcissist overwhelms their partners with excessive attention, affection, gifts and praise to quickly gain emotional control. They might constantly message their partner, talk about a future together very quickly or make the person feel like they have finally found \u201cthe perfect partner.\u201d This attention may feel exciting at first, but it creates emotional attachment quickly. Once the narcissist feels secure in the relationship, the intense affection starts fading, leaving their partners confused and wondering what went wrong.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n2. Gaslighting<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nGaslighting is yet another most emotionally damaging manipulation tactics that narcissists often use to control their partners. Gaslighting is when a narcissist makes their partner doubt their own memory, feelings or understanding of situations. Examples include, denying saying hurtful things, twisting past events or accusing partner of being \u201ctoo sensitive\u201d or \u201ccrazy.\u201d Frequent gaslighting leaves the other person questioning their own judgment and become more dependent on their narcissist partner. This emotional confusion makes it harder for the victims to trust themselves. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
3. Constant Criticism<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nNarcissist partners like to criticize the other person. Criticism begins in subtle ways, gradually becoming more direct. In the beginning, you may not see any harm in those comments, but they slowly damage self-esteem. A narcissist can criticise their partner for anything, from their appearance and intelligence to career and personal choices. They may even compare their partner to other people to make them feel inadequate. Constant criticism makes the other person feel worthless and insecure, which allows the narcissist to control them more easily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
4. Silent Treatment<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n![\"Silent-Treatment\"](\"https:\/\/www.happywedding.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Silent-Treatment.png\")
Image Source: choosingtherapy.com<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nGiving silent treatment is yet another way narcissist use to have control and manipulate their partner. They use silence as a punishment. You cannot ever expect a narcissist to discuss a problem. They use a different route altogether. They suddenly stop talking, ignore messages or emotionally withdraw for hours or even days. Silence often leaves the other person feeling anxious and desperate to \u201cfix\u201d the situation. Seeing this, partners start apologizing even when they did nothing wrong just to restore peace in the relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
5. Playing the Victim Card<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nPlaying the victim card is yet another way a narcissist controls their partner<\/strong><\/a>. Narcissists do not like accepting their mistakes or taking responsibility of their actions. They instead present themselves as the victim during conflicts. And they do it even when they are the ones who have cause the harm. They smartly twist the situation in their favour to make it appear like they are the one being mistreated. They may say things like, \u201cYou always misunderstand me,\u201d or \u201cAfter everything I do for you, this is how you treat me?\u201d This is done to create guilt and confusion in their partner\u2019s mind.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n6. Distancing From Friends and Family<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n![\"Distancing-From-Friends-and-Family\"](\"https:\/\/www.happywedding.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Distancing-From-Friends-and-Family.png\")
<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nDistancing is another common control tactic that narcissist use. They slowly separate their partner from supportive people in their life, including their family, friends and well-wishers. The irony is that they will never directly say anything about their partner\u2019s supportive people. They begin it with subtle complaints or accusing loved ones of being \u201cbad influences\u201d and so on. Sometimes they act jealous whenever their partner spends time with other people. This behaviour compels their partner to isolate themselves to have peace in the relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
7. Emotional Highs and Lows<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nA narcissistic partner can never be emotionally safe or predictable. Emotional highs and lows are pretty common with narcissists. One day the narcissist may act extremely loving and caring, while the next day they become cold, distant or angry, leaving their partner confused and emotionally drained. This emotional inconsistency also leaves the other person hoping the \u201cgood version\u201d of their narcissist partner will return permanently. And this hope causes many people to remain trapped in an unhealthy cycle far longer than they normally would.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
8. Jealousy and Over Possessiveness<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nSome narcissists become extremely jealous and controlling in relationships<\/strong><\/a>. Narcissists often question where their partner is going, who they are talking to, what they are doing online and so on. Initially, this questioning looks like love or protectiveness, but eventually, it becomes emotionally draining. Narcissist do this because they want complete attention and if they see their partner happy outside the relationship, they become angry and agitated. This over possessiveness makes it difficult for the other person to feel free and independent in the relationship.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n9. Using Guilt as Tool to Control<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nGuilt is another powerful tool that narcissist use to manipulate and control their partners. They often remind their partner about favors they have done in the past or make them feel selfish for having personal needs. For example, if their partner wants space, rest or emotional support, the narcissist may say, \u201cYou only care about your own needs,\u201d or \u201cI do everything for you, still you behave this way,\u201d and so on. This emotional guilt tripping makes the other person ignore their own emotional needs and pay attention to their narcissistic partner completely. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
10. Blame Game<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n![\"Blame-Game\"](\"https:\/\/www.happywedding.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Blame-Game.png\")
Image Source: verywellmind.com<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nNo narcissist like taking accountability for their actions. They in fact, use the different route and that\u2019s to put the blame on their partners. If something goes wrong or their partner questions something they instantly start blaming them for everything. For instance, if they lie, cheat, become angry or behave disrespectfully, they claim their partner caused the behavior. This creates a toxic cycle where the victim keeps feeling responsible for problems, that they did not cause in the first place. This leaves the victim emotionally exhausted and insecure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
11. Threats and Emotional Intimidation<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nFear and threats are also weapons that most narcissists use to control their partners. These threats may not be physical always, but even emotional intimidation can make the victim feel insecure and confused. Narcissists may threaten to leave the relationship<\/strong><\/a>, damage their partner\u2019s reputation, withhold affection or create constant emotional tension to maintain control. This makes the other person walk on eggshells to avoid conflicts and constantly worry about upsetting their partner.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\nHow These Tactics Affect the Victim?\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\nThese manipulation tactics may not appear harmful in the beginning, but they are actually emotionally damaging and deeply controlling over time. Narcissistic manipulation often begins in very subtle ways, making it difficult for the victim to recognize it at first. More often than not, people don\u2019t even realize they are being controlled until the emotional damage becomes severe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Whatever the case, these tactics can be very damaging for one\u2019s existence. The person who is being controlled often end up being emotionally drained, filled with self-doubt, guilt and fear. The narcissist uses these tactics to gradually break down the other person\u2019s confidence while gaining stronger emotional control over the relationship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Repeated manipulation makes the victim stay in a vicious cycle, hoping that their partner will become the same person as he\/she was in the beginning of the relationship. This false hope often takes aways the person\u2019s happiness and confidence, leaving them feel underconfident, emotionally drained and mentally exhausted. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Putting it all together\u2026<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\nSo, these are the 11 most common manipulation tactics that narcissists use to control their partners. Relationship with a narcissist can be emotionally confusing and deeply exhausting. Manipulation tactics like gaslighting, guilt, silent treatment and emotional inconsistency slowly damages a person\u2019s self-esteem and emotional health. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
However, understanding of these tactics can help the person protect their emotional well-being. If you consistently notice these behaviours, then you are definitely in a narcissistic relationship. Understand that a healthy relationship <\/strong><\/a>is built on trust, honesty, respect, communication and emotional support. <\/p>\n\n\n\nIf you are not getting all this in your relationship even after putting your best effort, then definitely you need to break the pattern. You may seek support from trusted friends, family members or a mental health professional to move towards the right path. Remember that you are not meant to be controlled, you are meant to be loved, supported and respected! <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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1. Love Bombing<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nFirst and foremost, tactics that they use is love bombing. Love Bombing<\/strong><\/a> is a phase when a narcissist overwhelms their partners with excessive attention, affection, gifts and praise to quickly gain emotional control. They might constantly message their partner, talk about a future together very quickly or make the person feel like they have finally found \u201cthe perfect partner.\u201d This attention may feel exciting at first, but it creates emotional attachment quickly. Once the narcissist feels secure in the relationship, the intense affection starts fading, leaving their partners confused and wondering what went wrong.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n2. Gaslighting<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nGaslighting is yet another most emotionally damaging manipulation tactics that narcissists often use to control their partners. Gaslighting is when a narcissist makes their partner doubt their own memory, feelings or understanding of situations. Examples include, denying saying hurtful things, twisting past events or accusing partner of being \u201ctoo sensitive\u201d or \u201ccrazy.\u201d Frequent gaslighting leaves the other person questioning their own judgment and become more dependent on their narcissist partner. This emotional confusion makes it harder for the victims to trust themselves. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
3. Constant Criticism<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nNarcissist partners like to criticize the other person. Criticism begins in subtle ways, gradually becoming more direct. In the beginning, you may not see any harm in those comments, but they slowly damage self-esteem. A narcissist can criticise their partner for anything, from their appearance and intelligence to career and personal choices. They may even compare their partner to other people to make them feel inadequate. Constant criticism makes the other person feel worthless and insecure, which allows the narcissist to control them more easily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
4. Silent Treatment<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nImage Source: choosingtherapy.com<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nGiving silent treatment is yet another way narcissist use to have control and manipulate their partner. They use silence as a punishment. You cannot ever expect a narcissist to discuss a problem. They use a different route altogether. They suddenly stop talking, ignore messages or emotionally withdraw for hours or even days. Silence often leaves the other person feeling anxious and desperate to \u201cfix\u201d the situation. Seeing this, partners start apologizing even when they did nothing wrong just to restore peace in the relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
5. Playing the Victim Card<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nPlaying the victim card is yet another way a narcissist controls their partner<\/strong><\/a>. Narcissists do not like accepting their mistakes or taking responsibility of their actions. They instead present themselves as the victim during conflicts. And they do it even when they are the ones who have cause the harm. They smartly twist the situation in their favour to make it appear like they are the one being mistreated. They may say things like, \u201cYou always misunderstand me,\u201d or \u201cAfter everything I do for you, this is how you treat me?\u201d This is done to create guilt and confusion in their partner\u2019s mind.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n6. Distancing From Friends and Family<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nDistancing is another common control tactic that narcissist use. They slowly separate their partner from supportive people in their life, including their family, friends and well-wishers. The irony is that they will never directly say anything about their partner\u2019s supportive people. They begin it with subtle complaints or accusing loved ones of being \u201cbad influences\u201d and so on. Sometimes they act jealous whenever their partner spends time with other people. This behaviour compels their partner to isolate themselves to have peace in the relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
7. Emotional Highs and Lows<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nA narcissistic partner can never be emotionally safe or predictable. Emotional highs and lows are pretty common with narcissists. One day the narcissist may act extremely loving and caring, while the next day they become cold, distant or angry, leaving their partner confused and emotionally drained. This emotional inconsistency also leaves the other person hoping the \u201cgood version\u201d of their narcissist partner will return permanently. And this hope causes many people to remain trapped in an unhealthy cycle far longer than they normally would.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
8. Jealousy and Over Possessiveness<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nSome narcissists become extremely jealous and controlling in relationships<\/strong><\/a>. Narcissists often question where their partner is going, who they are talking to, what they are doing online and so on. Initially, this questioning looks like love or protectiveness, but eventually, it becomes emotionally draining. Narcissist do this because they want complete attention and if they see their partner happy outside the relationship, they become angry and agitated. This over possessiveness makes it difficult for the other person to feel free and independent in the relationship.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n9. Using Guilt as Tool to Control<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nGuilt is another powerful tool that narcissist use to manipulate and control their partners. They often remind their partner about favors they have done in the past or make them feel selfish for having personal needs. For example, if their partner wants space, rest or emotional support, the narcissist may say, \u201cYou only care about your own needs,\u201d or \u201cI do everything for you, still you behave this way,\u201d and so on. This emotional guilt tripping makes the other person ignore their own emotional needs and pay attention to their narcissistic partner completely. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
10. Blame Game<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nImage Source: verywellmind.com<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nNo narcissist like taking accountability for their actions. They in fact, use the different route and that\u2019s to put the blame on their partners. If something goes wrong or their partner questions something they instantly start blaming them for everything. For instance, if they lie, cheat, become angry or behave disrespectfully, they claim their partner caused the behavior. This creates a toxic cycle where the victim keeps feeling responsible for problems, that they did not cause in the first place. This leaves the victim emotionally exhausted and insecure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
11. Threats and Emotional Intimidation<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nFear and threats are also weapons that most narcissists use to control their partners. These threats may not be physical always, but even emotional intimidation can make the victim feel insecure and confused. Narcissists may threaten to leave the relationship<\/strong><\/a>, damage their partner\u2019s reputation, withhold affection or create constant emotional tension to maintain control. This makes the other person walk on eggshells to avoid conflicts and constantly worry about upsetting their partner.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\nHow These Tactics Affect the Victim?\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\nThese manipulation tactics may not appear harmful in the beginning, but they are actually emotionally damaging and deeply controlling over time. Narcissistic manipulation often begins in very subtle ways, making it difficult for the victim to recognize it at first. More often than not, people don\u2019t even realize they are being controlled until the emotional damage becomes severe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Whatever the case, these tactics can be very damaging for one\u2019s existence. The person who is being controlled often end up being emotionally drained, filled with self-doubt, guilt and fear. The narcissist uses these tactics to gradually break down the other person\u2019s confidence while gaining stronger emotional control over the relationship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Repeated manipulation makes the victim stay in a vicious cycle, hoping that their partner will become the same person as he\/she was in the beginning of the relationship. This false hope often takes aways the person\u2019s happiness and confidence, leaving them feel underconfident, emotionally drained and mentally exhausted. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Putting it all together\u2026<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\nSo, these are the 11 most common manipulation tactics that narcissists use to control their partners. Relationship with a narcissist can be emotionally confusing and deeply exhausting. Manipulation tactics like gaslighting, guilt, silent treatment and emotional inconsistency slowly damages a person\u2019s self-esteem and emotional health. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
However, understanding of these tactics can help the person protect their emotional well-being. If you consistently notice these behaviours, then you are definitely in a narcissistic relationship. Understand that a healthy relationship <\/strong><\/a>is built on trust, honesty, respect, communication and emotional support. <\/p>\n\n\n\nIf you are not getting all this in your relationship even after putting your best effort, then definitely you need to break the pattern. You may seek support from trusted friends, family members or a mental health professional to move towards the right path. Remember that you are not meant to be controlled, you are meant to be loved, supported and respected! <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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2. Gaslighting<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nGaslighting is yet another most emotionally damaging manipulation tactics that narcissists often use to control their partners. Gaslighting is when a narcissist makes their partner doubt their own memory, feelings or understanding of situations. Examples include, denying saying hurtful things, twisting past events or accusing partner of being \u201ctoo sensitive\u201d or \u201ccrazy.\u201d Frequent gaslighting leaves the other person questioning their own judgment and become more dependent on their narcissist partner. This emotional confusion makes it harder for the victims to trust themselves. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
3. Constant Criticism<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nNarcissist partners like to criticize the other person. Criticism begins in subtle ways, gradually becoming more direct. In the beginning, you may not see any harm in those comments, but they slowly damage self-esteem. A narcissist can criticise their partner for anything, from their appearance and intelligence to career and personal choices. They may even compare their partner to other people to make them feel inadequate. Constant criticism makes the other person feel worthless and insecure, which allows the narcissist to control them more easily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
4. Silent Treatment<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nImage Source: choosingtherapy.com<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nGiving silent treatment is yet another way narcissist use to have control and manipulate their partner. They use silence as a punishment. You cannot ever expect a narcissist to discuss a problem. They use a different route altogether. They suddenly stop talking, ignore messages or emotionally withdraw for hours or even days. Silence often leaves the other person feeling anxious and desperate to \u201cfix\u201d the situation. Seeing this, partners start apologizing even when they did nothing wrong just to restore peace in the relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
5. Playing the Victim Card<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nPlaying the victim card is yet another way a narcissist controls their partner<\/strong><\/a>. Narcissists do not like accepting their mistakes or taking responsibility of their actions. They instead present themselves as the victim during conflicts. And they do it even when they are the ones who have cause the harm. They smartly twist the situation in their favour to make it appear like they are the one being mistreated. They may say things like, \u201cYou always misunderstand me,\u201d or \u201cAfter everything I do for you, this is how you treat me?\u201d This is done to create guilt and confusion in their partner\u2019s mind.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n6. Distancing From Friends and Family<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nDistancing is another common control tactic that narcissist use. They slowly separate their partner from supportive people in their life, including their family, friends and well-wishers. The irony is that they will never directly say anything about their partner\u2019s supportive people. They begin it with subtle complaints or accusing loved ones of being \u201cbad influences\u201d and so on. Sometimes they act jealous whenever their partner spends time with other people. This behaviour compels their partner to isolate themselves to have peace in the relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
7. Emotional Highs and Lows<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nA narcissistic partner can never be emotionally safe or predictable. Emotional highs and lows are pretty common with narcissists. One day the narcissist may act extremely loving and caring, while the next day they become cold, distant or angry, leaving their partner confused and emotionally drained. This emotional inconsistency also leaves the other person hoping the \u201cgood version\u201d of their narcissist partner will return permanently. And this hope causes many people to remain trapped in an unhealthy cycle far longer than they normally would.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
8. Jealousy and Over Possessiveness<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nSome narcissists become extremely jealous and controlling in relationships<\/strong><\/a>. Narcissists often question where their partner is going, who they are talking to, what they are doing online and so on. Initially, this questioning looks like love or protectiveness, but eventually, it becomes emotionally draining. Narcissist do this because they want complete attention and if they see their partner happy outside the relationship, they become angry and agitated. This over possessiveness makes it difficult for the other person to feel free and independent in the relationship.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n9. Using Guilt as Tool to Control<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nGuilt is another powerful tool that narcissist use to manipulate and control their partners. They often remind their partner about favors they have done in the past or make them feel selfish for having personal needs. For example, if their partner wants space, rest or emotional support, the narcissist may say, \u201cYou only care about your own needs,\u201d or \u201cI do everything for you, still you behave this way,\u201d and so on. This emotional guilt tripping makes the other person ignore their own emotional needs and pay attention to their narcissistic partner completely. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
10. Blame Game<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nImage Source: verywellmind.com<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nNo narcissist like taking accountability for their actions. They in fact, use the different route and that\u2019s to put the blame on their partners. If something goes wrong or their partner questions something they instantly start blaming them for everything. For instance, if they lie, cheat, become angry or behave disrespectfully, they claim their partner caused the behavior. This creates a toxic cycle where the victim keeps feeling responsible for problems, that they did not cause in the first place. This leaves the victim emotionally exhausted and insecure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
11. Threats and Emotional Intimidation<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nFear and threats are also weapons that most narcissists use to control their partners. These threats may not be physical always, but even emotional intimidation can make the victim feel insecure and confused. Narcissists may threaten to leave the relationship<\/strong><\/a>, damage their partner\u2019s reputation, withhold affection or create constant emotional tension to maintain control. This makes the other person walk on eggshells to avoid conflicts and constantly worry about upsetting their partner.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\nHow These Tactics Affect the Victim?\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\nThese manipulation tactics may not appear harmful in the beginning, but they are actually emotionally damaging and deeply controlling over time. Narcissistic manipulation often begins in very subtle ways, making it difficult for the victim to recognize it at first. More often than not, people don\u2019t even realize they are being controlled until the emotional damage becomes severe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Whatever the case, these tactics can be very damaging for one\u2019s existence. The person who is being controlled often end up being emotionally drained, filled with self-doubt, guilt and fear. The narcissist uses these tactics to gradually break down the other person\u2019s confidence while gaining stronger emotional control over the relationship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Repeated manipulation makes the victim stay in a vicious cycle, hoping that their partner will become the same person as he\/she was in the beginning of the relationship. This false hope often takes aways the person\u2019s happiness and confidence, leaving them feel underconfident, emotionally drained and mentally exhausted. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Putting it all together\u2026<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\nSo, these are the 11 most common manipulation tactics that narcissists use to control their partners. Relationship with a narcissist can be emotionally confusing and deeply exhausting. Manipulation tactics like gaslighting, guilt, silent treatment and emotional inconsistency slowly damages a person\u2019s self-esteem and emotional health. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
However, understanding of these tactics can help the person protect their emotional well-being. If you consistently notice these behaviours, then you are definitely in a narcissistic relationship. Understand that a healthy relationship <\/strong><\/a>is built on trust, honesty, respect, communication and emotional support. <\/p>\n\n\n\nIf you are not getting all this in your relationship even after putting your best effort, then definitely you need to break the pattern. You may seek support from trusted friends, family members or a mental health professional to move towards the right path. Remember that you are not meant to be controlled, you are meant to be loved, supported and respected! <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Narcissist partners like to criticize the other person. Criticism begins in subtle ways, gradually becoming more direct. In the beginning, you may not see any harm in those comments, but they slowly damage self-esteem. A narcissist can criticise their partner for anything, from their appearance and intelligence to career and personal choices. They may even compare their partner to other people to make them feel inadequate. Constant criticism makes the other person feel worthless and insecure, which allows the narcissist to control them more easily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
4. Silent Treatment<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nImage Source: choosingtherapy.com<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nGiving silent treatment is yet another way narcissist use to have control and manipulate their partner. They use silence as a punishment. You cannot ever expect a narcissist to discuss a problem. They use a different route altogether. They suddenly stop talking, ignore messages or emotionally withdraw for hours or even days. Silence often leaves the other person feeling anxious and desperate to \u201cfix\u201d the situation. Seeing this, partners start apologizing even when they did nothing wrong just to restore peace in the relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
5. Playing the Victim Card<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nPlaying the victim card is yet another way a narcissist controls their partner<\/strong><\/a>. Narcissists do not like accepting their mistakes or taking responsibility of their actions. They instead present themselves as the victim during conflicts. And they do it even when they are the ones who have cause the harm. They smartly twist the situation in their favour to make it appear like they are the one being mistreated. They may say things like, \u201cYou always misunderstand me,\u201d or \u201cAfter everything I do for you, this is how you treat me?\u201d This is done to create guilt and confusion in their partner\u2019s mind.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n6. Distancing From Friends and Family<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nDistancing is another common control tactic that narcissist use. They slowly separate their partner from supportive people in their life, including their family, friends and well-wishers. The irony is that they will never directly say anything about their partner\u2019s supportive people. They begin it with subtle complaints or accusing loved ones of being \u201cbad influences\u201d and so on. Sometimes they act jealous whenever their partner spends time with other people. This behaviour compels their partner to isolate themselves to have peace in the relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
7. Emotional Highs and Lows<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nA narcissistic partner can never be emotionally safe or predictable. Emotional highs and lows are pretty common with narcissists. One day the narcissist may act extremely loving and caring, while the next day they become cold, distant or angry, leaving their partner confused and emotionally drained. This emotional inconsistency also leaves the other person hoping the \u201cgood version\u201d of their narcissist partner will return permanently. And this hope causes many people to remain trapped in an unhealthy cycle far longer than they normally would.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
8. Jealousy and Over Possessiveness<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nSome narcissists become extremely jealous and controlling in relationships<\/strong><\/a>. Narcissists often question where their partner is going, who they are talking to, what they are doing online and so on. Initially, this questioning looks like love or protectiveness, but eventually, it becomes emotionally draining. Narcissist do this because they want complete attention and if they see their partner happy outside the relationship, they become angry and agitated. This over possessiveness makes it difficult for the other person to feel free and independent in the relationship.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n9. Using Guilt as Tool to Control<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nGuilt is another powerful tool that narcissist use to manipulate and control their partners. They often remind their partner about favors they have done in the past or make them feel selfish for having personal needs. For example, if their partner wants space, rest or emotional support, the narcissist may say, \u201cYou only care about your own needs,\u201d or \u201cI do everything for you, still you behave this way,\u201d and so on. This emotional guilt tripping makes the other person ignore their own emotional needs and pay attention to their narcissistic partner completely. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
10. Blame Game<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nImage Source: verywellmind.com<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nNo narcissist like taking accountability for their actions. They in fact, use the different route and that\u2019s to put the blame on their partners. If something goes wrong or their partner questions something they instantly start blaming them for everything. For instance, if they lie, cheat, become angry or behave disrespectfully, they claim their partner caused the behavior. This creates a toxic cycle where the victim keeps feeling responsible for problems, that they did not cause in the first place. This leaves the victim emotionally exhausted and insecure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
11. Threats and Emotional Intimidation<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nFear and threats are also weapons that most narcissists use to control their partners. These threats may not be physical always, but even emotional intimidation can make the victim feel insecure and confused. Narcissists may threaten to leave the relationship<\/strong><\/a>, damage their partner\u2019s reputation, withhold affection or create constant emotional tension to maintain control. This makes the other person walk on eggshells to avoid conflicts and constantly worry about upsetting their partner.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\nHow These Tactics Affect the Victim?\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\nThese manipulation tactics may not appear harmful in the beginning, but they are actually emotionally damaging and deeply controlling over time. Narcissistic manipulation often begins in very subtle ways, making it difficult for the victim to recognize it at first. More often than not, people don\u2019t even realize they are being controlled until the emotional damage becomes severe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Whatever the case, these tactics can be very damaging for one\u2019s existence. The person who is being controlled often end up being emotionally drained, filled with self-doubt, guilt and fear. The narcissist uses these tactics to gradually break down the other person\u2019s confidence while gaining stronger emotional control over the relationship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Repeated manipulation makes the victim stay in a vicious cycle, hoping that their partner will become the same person as he\/she was in the beginning of the relationship. This false hope often takes aways the person\u2019s happiness and confidence, leaving them feel underconfident, emotionally drained and mentally exhausted. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Putting it all together\u2026<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\nSo, these are the 11 most common manipulation tactics that narcissists use to control their partners. Relationship with a narcissist can be emotionally confusing and deeply exhausting. Manipulation tactics like gaslighting, guilt, silent treatment and emotional inconsistency slowly damages a person\u2019s self-esteem and emotional health. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
However, understanding of these tactics can help the person protect their emotional well-being. If you consistently notice these behaviours, then you are definitely in a narcissistic relationship. Understand that a healthy relationship <\/strong><\/a>is built on trust, honesty, respect, communication and emotional support. <\/p>\n\n\n\nIf you are not getting all this in your relationship even after putting your best effort, then definitely you need to break the pattern. You may seek support from trusted friends, family members or a mental health professional to move towards the right path. Remember that you are not meant to be controlled, you are meant to be loved, supported and respected! <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Giving silent treatment is yet another way narcissist use to have control and manipulate their partner. They use silence as a punishment. You cannot ever expect a narcissist to discuss a problem. They use a different route altogether. They suddenly stop talking, ignore messages or emotionally withdraw for hours or even days. Silence often leaves the other person feeling anxious and desperate to \u201cfix\u201d the situation. Seeing this, partners start apologizing even when they did nothing wrong just to restore peace in the relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
5. Playing the Victim Card<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nPlaying the victim card is yet another way a narcissist controls their partner<\/strong><\/a>. Narcissists do not like accepting their mistakes or taking responsibility of their actions. They instead present themselves as the victim during conflicts. And they do it even when they are the ones who have cause the harm. They smartly twist the situation in their favour to make it appear like they are the one being mistreated. They may say things like, \u201cYou always misunderstand me,\u201d or \u201cAfter everything I do for you, this is how you treat me?\u201d This is done to create guilt and confusion in their partner\u2019s mind.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n6. Distancing From Friends and Family<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nDistancing is another common control tactic that narcissist use. They slowly separate their partner from supportive people in their life, including their family, friends and well-wishers. The irony is that they will never directly say anything about their partner\u2019s supportive people. They begin it with subtle complaints or accusing loved ones of being \u201cbad influences\u201d and so on. Sometimes they act jealous whenever their partner spends time with other people. This behaviour compels their partner to isolate themselves to have peace in the relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
7. Emotional Highs and Lows<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nA narcissistic partner can never be emotionally safe or predictable. Emotional highs and lows are pretty common with narcissists. One day the narcissist may act extremely loving and caring, while the next day they become cold, distant or angry, leaving their partner confused and emotionally drained. This emotional inconsistency also leaves the other person hoping the \u201cgood version\u201d of their narcissist partner will return permanently. And this hope causes many people to remain trapped in an unhealthy cycle far longer than they normally would.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
8. Jealousy and Over Possessiveness<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nSome narcissists become extremely jealous and controlling in relationships<\/strong><\/a>. Narcissists often question where their partner is going, who they are talking to, what they are doing online and so on. Initially, this questioning looks like love or protectiveness, but eventually, it becomes emotionally draining. Narcissist do this because they want complete attention and if they see their partner happy outside the relationship, they become angry and agitated. This over possessiveness makes it difficult for the other person to feel free and independent in the relationship.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n9. Using Guilt as Tool to Control<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nGuilt is another powerful tool that narcissist use to manipulate and control their partners. They often remind their partner about favors they have done in the past or make them feel selfish for having personal needs. For example, if their partner wants space, rest or emotional support, the narcissist may say, \u201cYou only care about your own needs,\u201d or \u201cI do everything for you, still you behave this way,\u201d and so on. This emotional guilt tripping makes the other person ignore their own emotional needs and pay attention to their narcissistic partner completely. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
10. Blame Game<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nImage Source: verywellmind.com<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nNo narcissist like taking accountability for their actions. They in fact, use the different route and that\u2019s to put the blame on their partners. If something goes wrong or their partner questions something they instantly start blaming them for everything. For instance, if they lie, cheat, become angry or behave disrespectfully, they claim their partner caused the behavior. This creates a toxic cycle where the victim keeps feeling responsible for problems, that they did not cause in the first place. This leaves the victim emotionally exhausted and insecure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
11. Threats and Emotional Intimidation<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nFear and threats are also weapons that most narcissists use to control their partners. These threats may not be physical always, but even emotional intimidation can make the victim feel insecure and confused. Narcissists may threaten to leave the relationship<\/strong><\/a>, damage their partner\u2019s reputation, withhold affection or create constant emotional tension to maintain control. This makes the other person walk on eggshells to avoid conflicts and constantly worry about upsetting their partner.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\nHow These Tactics Affect the Victim?\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\nThese manipulation tactics may not appear harmful in the beginning, but they are actually emotionally damaging and deeply controlling over time. Narcissistic manipulation often begins in very subtle ways, making it difficult for the victim to recognize it at first. More often than not, people don\u2019t even realize they are being controlled until the emotional damage becomes severe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Whatever the case, these tactics can be very damaging for one\u2019s existence. The person who is being controlled often end up being emotionally drained, filled with self-doubt, guilt and fear. The narcissist uses these tactics to gradually break down the other person\u2019s confidence while gaining stronger emotional control over the relationship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Repeated manipulation makes the victim stay in a vicious cycle, hoping that their partner will become the same person as he\/she was in the beginning of the relationship. This false hope often takes aways the person\u2019s happiness and confidence, leaving them feel underconfident, emotionally drained and mentally exhausted. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Putting it all together\u2026<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\nSo, these are the 11 most common manipulation tactics that narcissists use to control their partners. Relationship with a narcissist can be emotionally confusing and deeply exhausting. Manipulation tactics like gaslighting, guilt, silent treatment and emotional inconsistency slowly damages a person\u2019s self-esteem and emotional health. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
However, understanding of these tactics can help the person protect their emotional well-being. If you consistently notice these behaviours, then you are definitely in a narcissistic relationship. Understand that a healthy relationship <\/strong><\/a>is built on trust, honesty, respect, communication and emotional support. <\/p>\n\n\n\nIf you are not getting all this in your relationship even after putting your best effort, then definitely you need to break the pattern. You may seek support from trusted friends, family members or a mental health professional to move towards the right path. Remember that you are not meant to be controlled, you are meant to be loved, supported and respected! <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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6. Distancing From Friends and Family<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nDistancing is another common control tactic that narcissist use. They slowly separate their partner from supportive people in their life, including their family, friends and well-wishers. The irony is that they will never directly say anything about their partner\u2019s supportive people. They begin it with subtle complaints or accusing loved ones of being \u201cbad influences\u201d and so on. Sometimes they act jealous whenever their partner spends time with other people. This behaviour compels their partner to isolate themselves to have peace in the relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
7. Emotional Highs and Lows<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nA narcissistic partner can never be emotionally safe or predictable. Emotional highs and lows are pretty common with narcissists. One day the narcissist may act extremely loving and caring, while the next day they become cold, distant or angry, leaving their partner confused and emotionally drained. This emotional inconsistency also leaves the other person hoping the \u201cgood version\u201d of their narcissist partner will return permanently. And this hope causes many people to remain trapped in an unhealthy cycle far longer than they normally would.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
8. Jealousy and Over Possessiveness<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nSome narcissists become extremely jealous and controlling in relationships<\/strong><\/a>. Narcissists often question where their partner is going, who they are talking to, what they are doing online and so on. Initially, this questioning looks like love or protectiveness, but eventually, it becomes emotionally draining. Narcissist do this because they want complete attention and if they see their partner happy outside the relationship, they become angry and agitated. This over possessiveness makes it difficult for the other person to feel free and independent in the relationship.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n9. Using Guilt as Tool to Control<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nGuilt is another powerful tool that narcissist use to manipulate and control their partners. They often remind their partner about favors they have done in the past or make them feel selfish for having personal needs. For example, if their partner wants space, rest or emotional support, the narcissist may say, \u201cYou only care about your own needs,\u201d or \u201cI do everything for you, still you behave this way,\u201d and so on. This emotional guilt tripping makes the other person ignore their own emotional needs and pay attention to their narcissistic partner completely. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
10. Blame Game<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nImage Source: verywellmind.com<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nNo narcissist like taking accountability for their actions. They in fact, use the different route and that\u2019s to put the blame on their partners. If something goes wrong or their partner questions something they instantly start blaming them for everything. For instance, if they lie, cheat, become angry or behave disrespectfully, they claim their partner caused the behavior. This creates a toxic cycle where the victim keeps feeling responsible for problems, that they did not cause in the first place. This leaves the victim emotionally exhausted and insecure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
11. Threats and Emotional Intimidation<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nFear and threats are also weapons that most narcissists use to control their partners. These threats may not be physical always, but even emotional intimidation can make the victim feel insecure and confused. Narcissists may threaten to leave the relationship<\/strong><\/a>, damage their partner\u2019s reputation, withhold affection or create constant emotional tension to maintain control. This makes the other person walk on eggshells to avoid conflicts and constantly worry about upsetting their partner.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\nHow These Tactics Affect the Victim?\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\nThese manipulation tactics may not appear harmful in the beginning, but they are actually emotionally damaging and deeply controlling over time. Narcissistic manipulation often begins in very subtle ways, making it difficult for the victim to recognize it at first. More often than not, people don\u2019t even realize they are being controlled until the emotional damage becomes severe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Whatever the case, these tactics can be very damaging for one\u2019s existence. The person who is being controlled often end up being emotionally drained, filled with self-doubt, guilt and fear. The narcissist uses these tactics to gradually break down the other person\u2019s confidence while gaining stronger emotional control over the relationship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Repeated manipulation makes the victim stay in a vicious cycle, hoping that their partner will become the same person as he\/she was in the beginning of the relationship. This false hope often takes aways the person\u2019s happiness and confidence, leaving them feel underconfident, emotionally drained and mentally exhausted. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Putting it all together\u2026<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\nSo, these are the 11 most common manipulation tactics that narcissists use to control their partners. Relationship with a narcissist can be emotionally confusing and deeply exhausting. Manipulation tactics like gaslighting, guilt, silent treatment and emotional inconsistency slowly damages a person\u2019s self-esteem and emotional health. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
However, understanding of these tactics can help the person protect their emotional well-being. If you consistently notice these behaviours, then you are definitely in a narcissistic relationship. Understand that a healthy relationship <\/strong><\/a>is built on trust, honesty, respect, communication and emotional support. <\/p>\n\n\n\nIf you are not getting all this in your relationship even after putting your best effort, then definitely you need to break the pattern. You may seek support from trusted friends, family members or a mental health professional to move towards the right path. Remember that you are not meant to be controlled, you are meant to be loved, supported and respected! <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nDistancing is another common control tactic that narcissist use. They slowly separate their partner from supportive people in their life, including their family, friends and well-wishers. The irony is that they will never directly say anything about their partner\u2019s supportive people. They begin it with subtle complaints or accusing loved ones of being \u201cbad influences\u201d and so on. Sometimes they act jealous whenever their partner spends time with other people. This behaviour compels their partner to isolate themselves to have peace in the relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
7. Emotional Highs and Lows<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nA narcissistic partner can never be emotionally safe or predictable. Emotional highs and lows are pretty common with narcissists. One day the narcissist may act extremely loving and caring, while the next day they become cold, distant or angry, leaving their partner confused and emotionally drained. This emotional inconsistency also leaves the other person hoping the \u201cgood version\u201d of their narcissist partner will return permanently. And this hope causes many people to remain trapped in an unhealthy cycle far longer than they normally would.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
8. Jealousy and Over Possessiveness<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nSome narcissists become extremely jealous and controlling in relationships<\/strong><\/a>. Narcissists often question where their partner is going, who they are talking to, what they are doing online and so on. Initially, this questioning looks like love or protectiveness, but eventually, it becomes emotionally draining. Narcissist do this because they want complete attention and if they see their partner happy outside the relationship, they become angry and agitated. This over possessiveness makes it difficult for the other person to feel free and independent in the relationship.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n9. Using Guilt as Tool to Control<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nGuilt is another powerful tool that narcissist use to manipulate and control their partners. They often remind their partner about favors they have done in the past or make them feel selfish for having personal needs. For example, if their partner wants space, rest or emotional support, the narcissist may say, \u201cYou only care about your own needs,\u201d or \u201cI do everything for you, still you behave this way,\u201d and so on. This emotional guilt tripping makes the other person ignore their own emotional needs and pay attention to their narcissistic partner completely. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
10. Blame Game<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nImage Source: verywellmind.com<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\nNo narcissist like taking accountability for their actions. They in fact, use the different route and that\u2019s to put the blame on their partners. If something goes wrong or their partner questions something they instantly start blaming them for everything. For instance, if they lie, cheat, become angry or behave disrespectfully, they claim their partner caused the behavior. This creates a toxic cycle where the victim keeps feeling responsible for problems, that they did not cause in the first place. This leaves the victim emotionally exhausted and insecure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
11. Threats and Emotional Intimidation<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nFear and threats are also weapons that most narcissists use to control their partners. These threats may not be physical always, but even emotional intimidation can make the victim feel insecure and confused. Narcissists may threaten to leave the relationship<\/strong><\/a>, damage their partner\u2019s reputation, withhold affection or create constant emotional tension to maintain control. This makes the other person walk on eggshells to avoid conflicts and constantly worry about upsetting their partner.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\nHow These Tactics Affect the Victim?\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\nThese manipulation tactics may not appear harmful in the beginning, but they are actually emotionally damaging and deeply controlling over time. Narcissistic manipulation often begins in very subtle ways, making it difficult for the victim to recognize it at first. More often than not, people don\u2019t even realize they are being controlled until the emotional damage becomes severe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Whatever the case, these tactics can be very damaging for one\u2019s existence. The person who is being controlled often end up being emotionally drained, filled with self-doubt, guilt and fear. The narcissist uses these tactics to gradually break down the other person\u2019s confidence while gaining stronger emotional control over the relationship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Repeated manipulation makes the victim stay in a vicious cycle, hoping that their partner will become the same person as he\/she was in the beginning of the relationship. This false hope often takes aways the person\u2019s happiness and confidence, leaving them feel underconfident, emotionally drained and mentally exhausted. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Putting it all together\u2026<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\nSo, these are the 11 most common manipulation tactics that narcissists use to control their partners. Relationship with a narcissist can be emotionally confusing and deeply exhausting. Manipulation tactics like gaslighting, guilt, silent treatment and emotional inconsistency slowly damages a person\u2019s self-esteem and emotional health. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
However, understanding of these tactics can help the person protect their emotional well-being. If you consistently notice these behaviours, then you are definitely in a narcissistic relationship. Understand that a healthy relationship <\/strong><\/a>is built on trust, honesty, respect, communication and emotional support. <\/p>\n\n\n\nIf you are not getting all this in your relationship even after putting your best effort, then definitely you need to break the pattern. You may seek support from trusted friends, family members or a mental health professional to move towards the right path. Remember that you are not meant to be controlled, you are meant to be loved, supported and respected! <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Some narcissists become extremely jealous and controlling in relationships<\/strong><\/a>. Narcissists often question where their partner is going, who they are talking to, what they are doing online and so on. Initially, this questioning looks like love or protectiveness, but eventually, it becomes emotionally draining. Narcissist do this because they want complete attention and if they see their partner happy outside the relationship, they become angry and agitated. This over possessiveness makes it difficult for the other person to feel free and independent in the relationship.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n Guilt is another powerful tool that narcissist use to manipulate and control their partners. They often remind their partner about favors they have done in the past or make them feel selfish for having personal needs. For example, if their partner wants space, rest or emotional support, the narcissist may say, \u201cYou only care about your own needs,\u201d or \u201cI do everything for you, still you behave this way,\u201d and so on. This emotional guilt tripping makes the other person ignore their own emotional needs and pay attention to their narcissistic partner completely. <\/p>\n\n\n\n No narcissist like taking accountability for their actions. They in fact, use the different route and that\u2019s to put the blame on their partners. If something goes wrong or their partner questions something they instantly start blaming them for everything. For instance, if they lie, cheat, become angry or behave disrespectfully, they claim their partner caused the behavior. This creates a toxic cycle where the victim keeps feeling responsible for problems, that they did not cause in the first place. This leaves the victim emotionally exhausted and insecure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Fear and threats are also weapons that most narcissists use to control their partners. These threats may not be physical always, but even emotional intimidation can make the victim feel insecure and confused. Narcissists may threaten to leave the relationship<\/strong><\/a>, damage their partner\u2019s reputation, withhold affection or create constant emotional tension to maintain control. This makes the other person walk on eggshells to avoid conflicts and constantly worry about upsetting their partner.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n These manipulation tactics may not appear harmful in the beginning, but they are actually emotionally damaging and deeply controlling over time. Narcissistic manipulation often begins in very subtle ways, making it difficult for the victim to recognize it at first. More often than not, people don\u2019t even realize they are being controlled until the emotional damage becomes severe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Whatever the case, these tactics can be very damaging for one\u2019s existence. The person who is being controlled often end up being emotionally drained, filled with self-doubt, guilt and fear. The narcissist uses these tactics to gradually break down the other person\u2019s confidence while gaining stronger emotional control over the relationship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Repeated manipulation makes the victim stay in a vicious cycle, hoping that their partner will become the same person as he\/she was in the beginning of the relationship. This false hope often takes aways the person\u2019s happiness and confidence, leaving them feel underconfident, emotionally drained and mentally exhausted. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Putting it all together\u2026<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n So, these are the 11 most common manipulation tactics that narcissists use to control their partners. Relationship with a narcissist can be emotionally confusing and deeply exhausting. Manipulation tactics like gaslighting, guilt, silent treatment and emotional inconsistency slowly damages a person\u2019s self-esteem and emotional health. <\/p>\n\n\n\n However, understanding of these tactics can help the person protect their emotional well-being. If you consistently notice these behaviours, then you are definitely in a narcissistic relationship. Understand that a healthy relationship <\/strong><\/a>is built on trust, honesty, respect, communication and emotional support. <\/p>\n\n\n\n If you are not getting all this in your relationship even after putting your best effort, then definitely you need to break the pattern. You may seek support from trusted friends, family members or a mental health professional to move towards the right path. Remember that you are not meant to be controlled, you are meant to be loved, supported and respected! <\/p>\n\n\n\n Be Wise, Be happy\u2026 \ud83d\ude0a \ud83d\ude0a\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Relationships can be safe or emotionally tumultuous and it totally depends on the kind of person you are with. Being with a narcissistic partner feels emotionally draining and confusing over …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":31,"featured_media":38451,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[52],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-38446","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationships"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t9. Using Guilt as Tool to Control<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
10. Blame Game<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n
11. Threats and Emotional Intimidation<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
How These Tactics Affect the Victim?\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n