Wedding Thank You Message Wording


With your big day approaching, it’s normal to feel a little overwhelmed and fretful at the same time to accomplish everything as soon as possible. The irony is – your job doesn’t end with you saying ‘I do’; the wedding stress continues even after the wedding. After all, you are still left with the most taxing task of writing those thank you notes to your guests. Writing thank you notes can be a pretty boring chore. Most couples find it a challenging task, especially when they want to enjoy their newlywed status. That is the reason the task continues for weeks or sometimes, even months.

Moreover, you cannot simply avoid writing thank you notes or convey gratitude via Facebook to your guests – it is against wedding etiquette. Email or phone call is again not a very feasible way to convey gratitude; these ways cannot communicate your feelings the right way. The task of writing thank you notes seems to be overly daunting to most couples and if you also happen to be one of them, here are wedding thank you message wordings for you.

Ready for the ride? Let’s get started…..

But, before we move to the topic, here are some of the tips to make the completion of the task less taxing:

  • The first step is to get your guest list printed along with the addresses. Now pen down who has given you what as you unfurl your presents. If you have received any gifts before your wedding, you’ll need to send out the thank you notes for them within two weeks of receiving the gifts. And if you’ve received gifts on your wedding day, you have a month to write thank you notes for them.
  • The next step is to get organized. Of course, you don’t need to write all of them in one sitting. The best way is to write 15-20 thank you notes each day. Also, dedicate a particular time to write thank-you notes, for instance, before going to bed.
  • Use your creativity. You don’t need to follow the same old traditions of writing thank you notes with black or blue pens on the same old ivory paper. Let your creativity flow, jazz it up with some unique elements. Maybe you can write thank you notes in accordance with your wedding theme.
  • Let your feelings flow. Your thank-you notes should not sound formal or written for the sake of writing. The wedding thank you message wordings should be personal and straight from your heart. The receiver should be able to feel the warmth. Do talk about the gift you have received in the note and tell how you plan to use it. Finally, compliment the giver for the gift to make a personal connection and say thanks again.
  • If you have received money as a gift at your wedding, mention in the note how you plan to spend the money.
  • Immediately place a checkmark against the thank you note you’re done writing with. This way, you can keep track of all the people you have written to.

Hope these tips help you write meaningful and thoughtful thank you notes to your wedding guests. Now, take a look at the different wedding thank message wording…. Here we go….. The first thing that you have to keep in mind while writing thank-you notes is that each note is different. Yes, you’re not going to write the same, not for all. There will be people who you’ll thank for their gifts, and others you’ll thank for helping you make your wedding day marvelous.


A wedding shower is a perfect occasion for gifts. If you have received a wedding shower gift, you’ll need to get your thank-you notes written before the wedding. Here is how to write shower thank-you notes:

Thank You Note #1

Dear Avril,

Just taking a moment to thank you and tell you how much I appreciate your fantastic shower gift! The crystal vase you gave is just gorgeous. I’m going to use it on my bedside table; it’ll remind me of you always!

It was great catching up with you at the shower. Thank you for being there and making it so special!



Thank You Note #2

Hi, Liza and Tim!

Thank you for sending a beautiful gift to my bridal shower. I wish with all my heart that both of you could have been there to celebrate my special day with me; I missed you badly. I’m extremely grateful for the thoughtful gifts you sent Theo and I. You guys are amazing friends!

Warmest thanks,



You can send thank-you notes for the wedding gifts within a month of your wedding. Here are the examples of thank you message wording for wedding gifts.

Thank You Note #3

Dear Megan and John,

Thank you so much for the beautiful champagne flutes you gave us for our wedding! An adorable and thoughtful gift that we can use to make our evenings more romantic ☺ ☺. We’re incredibly touched by your unique choice and delighted that you were able to make it to the wedding, too. Your presence on our big day meant so much to us. Thank you again! Warmly,

Rachel and Bishop

Thank You Note #4

Dear Tina and Alex,

Thank you so much for the blender. It’s already coming in handy with meal prep. We appreciate you for giving us such a thoughtful present. We’ll think of you every time we’ll use it. Thanks again!


Joseph and Anita


Here is what you should write when you receive monetary gifts or gift cards:

Thank You Note #5

Dear Uncle Ralph,

Thank you so much for making time to celebrate our wedding day with us! Daniel and I were thrilled with your incredibly generous and thoughtful gift of $200. Thanks to you, we could buy a new couch that we will enjoy for years to come—

looking forward to seeing you over the holidays! Love,

Theo and Tracy

Thank You Note #6

Dear Mrs. Mario,

Christopher and I are so grateful for the generous travel gift card. Your generosity just moved us. We’re going to utilize it soon during our honeymoon. It means a lot to know you’re caring for us and wishing us well as we start together. Thank you again for your thoughtfulness!


Cleeta Edward


Some guests really make special efforts to be at your wedding to celebrate the big day with you. Their presence is worth a thank you; here is what you should write to express your emotions:

Thank You Note #7

Dear Thomas,

Lucas and I are really grateful to you for going out of your way to being at our wedding. Your presence meant so much to us. And your beautiful dance at the wedding reception made our reception even more special. You really outdid it; we can’t tell you how much we appreciate it. Thank you much for making our special day even more special and unforgettable!

Lots of love, Lucas and Lucy

Thank You Note #8

Dear Kate,

William and I just want to thank you for making time to attend our wedding and making it even more special. It was so fun to have you on our big day. We hope you had fun at the wedding. We really want you to know that your presence means a lot to us. And so do you! Thanks again!


William and Lizzie


A wedding without a wedding party is nearly impossible. These are the people who help you make your day even more memorable. All your bridesmaids, groomsmen, attendants, ushers, and other helpers deserve a warm thank-you note. Here is what you should write to thank them:

Thank You Note #9

Dear Catharine,

Having you at our wedding means a lot to us. Everything from your presence to your smiles and hugs and your beautiful words made our day incredibly memorable. We loved having you there to be a part of the celebration. Your presence made everything about the wedding so charming and mesmerizing. Thanks for being an integral part of our special day and the best maid of honor ever!

Love always,


Thank You Note #10

Dear Noah,

What a fantastic wedding day we had! It wouldn’t have been complete without you. I felt lucky to have you by my side as my best man at my wedding and even more fortunate to have you as my best friend for life. Thank you for being an essential part of our wedding and helping us out to make our day memorable. The laughter and energy you shared made our wedding even more unforgettable. And the toast you made at the reception was fabulous.


Richard and Cathy


People who help you create your dream wedding deserve special than you. It could be your friend, family, your wedding planner, coordinator, or anybody for that matter. Here is what you should write to thank them:

Thank You Note #11

Dear William,

Thank you for all your support at the wedding! We appreciate having you there standing by us and sharing in the celebration. Richard and I are fortunate to have you in our lives. Thanks for being there and making our day even more special.

Lots of love,


Thank You Note #12

Dear Oliver,

I take this time to thank you for all your expertise in planning and pulling our wedding day together! You are a fantastic wedding planner. Liam and I appreciate your professional, tranquil and gracious behavior at all times. Thank you so much for being there for us from start to finish, being so patient with us, and putting up with all of my sister’s worried phone calls, questions, and last-minute changes. It was an idyllic day for Liam and me, but it wouldn’t have been possible without you. Thank you for going above and beyond to help us!



Thank You to Parent(s)

Yes, you’ll need to thank your parent(s) as well. You might have thanked them in person already, but for an occasion like a wedding, it’s worth putting in words, too.

Thank You Note #13

Dear Beloved Parents/ Dear Mom and Dad,

I would never have made it to this day without your incredible love, encouragement, support, and guidance throughout these past few months. It felt so great to have you two by our side during the entire wedding preparation and procession. Stephen and I will never forget the way you stood by our sides: walking down the aisle, toasting with us, and celebrating every moment with us. Your unconditional love and guidance have shaped me into the woman I am today. Our wedding is just one special day in a lifetime of memories we have with you; we look forward to sharing innumerable moments as we begin our new life together. Thank you for everything you did to make this day – and our entire lives – so wonderful. Thanks again, from the bottom of our hearts, for everything!

Love always,


Thank you note #14

Dear Parents,

We want to take a moment to express our gratitude for everything you have done for us. It was a pleasure having you by our side and sharing the celebration. Cathy and I are grateful to you for everything that you have done for us. We’ll never forget your unconditional love and guidance that you showered on us. Thank you so much for making our day even more special. We love you from the bottom of our hearts!

With love,


Conclusion Hope these wedding thank you message wordings help you minimize your effort and express your gratitude in the best way. Now you don’t have to think too hard about what to write in a Thank-you note.

Use these samples for writing your thank you notes for your wedding guests, and let them know how you appreciate their presence at your wedding.

Happy Wedding….. ☺ ☺

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